Well I'm not qualified to know about bullet tension using the Lee Target Loader, having used it only once 40+ years ago, and I didn't even think about pushing on the bullets!
My bolt action sure didn't seem to mind, whatever the tension was!
I think the perfect dies aren't built yet, since bushing dies only partial size the necks and the bushings float loosey.
Bert's statement about Forster would seem to indicate that they offer something closer to perfect:
But I do think a Forster full length sizing die with its neck honed out to the desired diameter (.002" smaller than that of a loaded round's neck) is a little better. Forster hones out their die necks for $12 each. It keeps the case neck perfectly aligned with the case shoulder (as well as the case body) as its sized down ending up with the case neck better centered on the case shoulder.
A gentleman posting on THR, who was looking to have them ream one of his Forster sizers was told by someone at Forster:
Forster recommends not exceeding .248" for the .223 die and not exceeding .333" for the .308 die. They claim the dies start to get out of round when they exceed those ID's.
So using that data:
.308 caliber: Maxing the ream at .333" -(.012"x2 neck thickness) = .309".
Your target would be .306 (.002" under bullet size). So with that neck wall thickness you want to ream only to .330"
With .014" necks however, you might have a problem....as they would have to ream .334". How common is a neck thickness of .014? I wonder if a whole .001 more would really cause an "out-of-round" problem?
.223 caliber: Maxing the ream at .248"-(.0012x2 neck thickness) = .224". Your target (.002" under bullet size) would be .221". So with that neck wall thickness you need to ream only to .245". In this case .014" walls would again increase the needed ream diam. to .249....one over again!?????
(I think my math is right?!) Thoughts?