I want to talk about this for a minute:
"She's very uncomfortable even seeing my Colt's hammer cocked back while in the holster and would NEVER consider carrying in Condition One."
A few Q's come up.
Has she shot much/at all?
Maybe you could give ner your unloaded 1911 cocked and locked to play with for a bit, while you watch tv or something.
she if she can make it accidentally fire.
(If your like me, you've likely gone over this already.)
The thing, is, after shooting a 1911 .45, I can't stand to more than play around with any other gun.
The only semi-auto I would entertain the idea of purchasing is a Glock, and that's just because it's "almost single action."
I wanted to love an H&K or SIG, and tried and tried.
That heavy rocking motion of the trigger just ain't condusive to smiling like my 1911.
If I ever get a DA, it'll defeinitely be a revo.
Which brings up my other question: does she or you dislike revolvers?
For someone who's not "into guns" the revolover is almost univocally (did I make that up?) recommended.
The
2" titanium .44 special from Taurus comes to mind.
You can pick one of those up for a lot less than a SIG.
My advice, help her relax about C&L 1911's (in
9x23 if she just HAS to make small holes) or, barring that, think about revos.
I've yet to see the semi auto DA trigger than can stand up to a good S&W or Taurus trigger.