Favorite handgun
My wife and I have 4 handguns together - all S&W. She has her lady smith 9mm which lives in her glove compartment, I have a 659 9mm and two 4516's - a 4516-1 and a 4516-2. I got both grips on the two 4516's changed to Hogue wood grips (I have huge hands) and they fit very comfortably. My 659 has a wrap around pachmayr grip (again, because of my huge hands - large palms and long piano fingers). I have to say I love my 4516-1 the best. I keep the 4516-2 by my bed and the 4516-1 is my carry weapon. It's not any better than the 2 - it's just the one I always have concealed on me. I don't like the 9mm's as much because they have a snappy recoil but I can drop someone easily inside of 25 feet with any of my handguns unless they are moving fast and not directly at or away from me..
My brother owns a HK 45 - a very nice polymer gun. The one thing that kept me from buying one like his instead of my older 4516s is that because the gun is so light and my hands are so big, the kick is harder to manage even though it's a perfect gun for my smaller handed brother.