...then do not buy a compact 1911 as your first!!!
Buy the 5" version first, before ANYTHING ELSE. If not that, at least a 4" or Commander size weapon. The full size frame is the most important part of learning a 1911. With a shorter than full-size frame, you are handicapping yourself from the beginning. Learn with at least a Commander length with a FULL SIZE FRAME...That way, you will at least have a whole handful of 1911 to "learn with"...beyond that...doesn't matter. Just think of having your little finger underneath the magazine...That's where it is...I have SMALL hands...so if I had trouble holding one, someone with larger hands may as well...Do not take this as a slam on the pistols! They are as good or better than any other compact pistol made...but...they ARE a compact!!! Try a few at least...before you buy anything, go to a good store with a large inventory and try each and every one of them!
I had a Detonics as my first 1911 pistol...Great gun...but unwieldy and weird after handling any other full size gun...It is a whole different way of carrying and shooting...that's the 1911 part! The smaller handle is a real obstacle to learning a proper hold and getting the manual of arms down...It is just different. I'll get flack from this, but if you'll just try the fullsize first, you may not even see a NEED for the compact model.
I'm 5'11" and 145lbs...I can carry a fullsize 1911 with no heavy coat anywhere I want. There's just no comparison learning to shoot a 45 in a compact size versus the Fullsize...
The stocks on my models 19,66,629 are ample and I shave them down to suit me. Even the stocks on a 1911 are a bit hefty for me...I shave them down as well...Shooting magnums in a 35oz gun is a handful with full target stocks, same goes for a 45acp...it's not a punishing cartridge at all...but it is very, very, easy to control and learn in a fully stocked gun...If you have access to both, try before you buy. If you just CAN'T...then buy both!
Good Luck!!!
...welcome to the fray!