I am at work on a break so I have to skip ahead and bypass the last page or so. Well, work got in the way some more, I am cutting some, sorry it's still too long.
So many people are throwing these phrases around and yet I can't help asking myself what do they know of violence?
Who or what have they ever killed to know what it's like?
EDITED: (Long deer hunting story here)
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I know how I felt when I saw him shot. I know what violence is. That was not violence against my fellow man but if these people who think they know what violence is think they can imagine it......
....................They are wrong.
I had the knowledge that what I did wasn't wrong. The deer was food for our table and I was taught to respect that relationship between hunter and game.
But I don't think you can convince me that playing a shooter game does anything at all to mitigate or desensitize a kid to violence.
I understand where the idea comes from. That people want to understand why some people are doing these things. People used to jump off bridges when their lives went to hell. Sometimes they couldn't do it themselves so they got someone else to help. This new twist with the kids doing the mass shooting. To me this smacks of someone who wants to make a splash before they go. To punish those who they believe were responsible. You know that is sometimes a motivation for suicide, to get back at someone, to leave a hurt that can't be forgotten or fixed.
But I think it is naive to think that these games are desensitizing anyone to performing a violent act. When a person get's bad enough that they can consider murder, they are past the point of being sensitive to any reality.
Understand why I say this, we aren't talking sensitive in the way your finger feels the needle. And you can do something to make the needle not feel so bad. We are talking about changing a person's sense of reality to a point that murdering someone in cold blood is not so bad.
The doctors talk about these cold blooded types who have no conscience, no sense of right and wrong. Something in their mental make-up is broken. That is not what most of these kids are, but it is similar. The end state is the same, they have been hurt so bad and so often, and they feel there is no hope, and they are going to go out famous, a last act, violent and shocking and it's going to leave a mark. It's going to hurt and no one is going to put Humpty back together again.
You want to fix this problem, fix the problem of marriage and the family. Man and woman, Mother and Father, put the yin and the yang back into kids lives. Women need to aspire to be mothers again, open jobs up for Men. Instead of making men compete against women for everything let them work together again to be a cooperative unit.
We are different for a reason, we just got to smart to see it. Now we are paying for it.
So many people are throwing these phrases around and yet I can't help asking myself what do they know of violence?
Who or what have they ever killed to know what it's like?
EDITED: (Long deer hunting story here)
.....
I know how I felt when I saw him shot. I know what violence is. That was not violence against my fellow man but if these people who think they know what violence is think they can imagine it......
....................They are wrong.
I had the knowledge that what I did wasn't wrong. The deer was food for our table and I was taught to respect that relationship between hunter and game.
But I don't think you can convince me that playing a shooter game does anything at all to mitigate or desensitize a kid to violence.
I understand where the idea comes from. That people want to understand why some people are doing these things. People used to jump off bridges when their lives went to hell. Sometimes they couldn't do it themselves so they got someone else to help. This new twist with the kids doing the mass shooting. To me this smacks of someone who wants to make a splash before they go. To punish those who they believe were responsible. You know that is sometimes a motivation for suicide, to get back at someone, to leave a hurt that can't be forgotten or fixed.
But I think it is naive to think that these games are desensitizing anyone to performing a violent act. When a person get's bad enough that they can consider murder, they are past the point of being sensitive to any reality.
Understand why I say this, we aren't talking sensitive in the way your finger feels the needle. And you can do something to make the needle not feel so bad. We are talking about changing a person's sense of reality to a point that murdering someone in cold blood is not so bad.
The doctors talk about these cold blooded types who have no conscience, no sense of right and wrong. Something in their mental make-up is broken. That is not what most of these kids are, but it is similar. The end state is the same, they have been hurt so bad and so often, and they feel there is no hope, and they are going to go out famous, a last act, violent and shocking and it's going to leave a mark. It's going to hurt and no one is going to put Humpty back together again.
You want to fix this problem, fix the problem of marriage and the family. Man and woman, Mother and Father, put the yin and the yang back into kids lives. Women need to aspire to be mothers again, open jobs up for Men. Instead of making men compete against women for everything let them work together again to be a cooperative unit.
We are different for a reason, we just got to smart to see it. Now we are paying for it.