threefivesevenmag
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Hey All.
I thought I'd post a situation I just got put in out of my will, but it has me uneasy. I have a friend of several years, happens to be a girl. Anyway, we spent time together last night and her current ex-boyfriend started sending text messages to my phone last night around 3:00am. The first one read "you're dead" followed by "you f**ked with the wrong guy, you're going to pay" followed by "I better pick a new career, etc" and then he gave me an ultimatum that if I did not apologize and swear I would never contact ***** again I would "regret" it. I contacted her and said if he didn't stop I would call the police. He messaged me back on my phone and said he never threatened me and that if I were in his shoes...blah blah...and again reminded me that if I didn't apologize by that certain time there would be issues.
Here is the problem. Supposedly he is a computer geek and is going to GPS track my cell phone and find me. That's creepy enough as it is. I woke up this morning and was going to take a shower and go to the local PD and have them read the messages and tell me what my options were...but crazy enough, in my groggy state of re-reading the messages (there were many) I accidently deleted them...I want to punch myself in the face for that. I called my phone provider and they said they can't get them back for me. So, I have no evidence, but am a bit uneasy this guy might try something.
Any thoughts on what should be done? Like I said, I can't get the evidence back. I just hope he messages again so I can have some evidence of threats. I can't watch my six all the time, but last night I slept with my D cell maglight, and handguns staggered around the room for quick access if I took cover or was caught off guard. I don't want to do that every night. I usually just have one on the nightstand and a small flashlight and my cell. I CC my Glock everywhere and usually always have my 642 in a pocket holster, also Spyderco Endura.
This is frustrating me and I feel now, since I have no evidence, I am helpless until he makes the next move. Also, I have not responded to his messages in any way shape or form. Nor plan to.
I thought I'd post a situation I just got put in out of my will, but it has me uneasy. I have a friend of several years, happens to be a girl. Anyway, we spent time together last night and her current ex-boyfriend started sending text messages to my phone last night around 3:00am. The first one read "you're dead" followed by "you f**ked with the wrong guy, you're going to pay" followed by "I better pick a new career, etc" and then he gave me an ultimatum that if I did not apologize and swear I would never contact ***** again I would "regret" it. I contacted her and said if he didn't stop I would call the police. He messaged me back on my phone and said he never threatened me and that if I were in his shoes...blah blah...and again reminded me that if I didn't apologize by that certain time there would be issues.
Here is the problem. Supposedly he is a computer geek and is going to GPS track my cell phone and find me. That's creepy enough as it is. I woke up this morning and was going to take a shower and go to the local PD and have them read the messages and tell me what my options were...but crazy enough, in my groggy state of re-reading the messages (there were many) I accidently deleted them...I want to punch myself in the face for that. I called my phone provider and they said they can't get them back for me. So, I have no evidence, but am a bit uneasy this guy might try something.
Any thoughts on what should be done? Like I said, I can't get the evidence back. I just hope he messages again so I can have some evidence of threats. I can't watch my six all the time, but last night I slept with my D cell maglight, and handguns staggered around the room for quick access if I took cover or was caught off guard. I don't want to do that every night. I usually just have one on the nightstand and a small flashlight and my cell. I CC my Glock everywhere and usually always have my 642 in a pocket holster, also Spyderco Endura.
This is frustrating me and I feel now, since I have no evidence, I am helpless until he makes the next move. Also, I have not responded to his messages in any way shape or form. Nor plan to.