The small J-frame guns seem to be the hardest for many folks to shoot controllably and accurately. Proficiency with these smaller revolvers generally seems to require additional practice, even for accomplished revolver shooters. Reduced grip frame dimensions, heavier triggers, shorter sight radius & more "basic" sights, more perceived recoil and controllability issues, etc.
Ammunition which generates greater perceived recoil, or more muzzle blast & flash, probably exacerbates this ... and I can certainly understand why some folks might wish to use the light recoiling & controllable wadcutters. Probably a very reasonable and sound choice for them.
After I first started carrying various J-frames, though, and reached a point where it didn't appreciably affect me whether I was using standard pressure or +P pressure ammunition, I used one or another of the 158gr LSWCHP/LHP loads for many years ... until the new Speer 135gr +P load was released.
The initial Speer testing appeared promising ... some other folk's limited subsequent testing appeared promising ... and a couple of random rounds we fired at a recent gelatin test session appeared promising (11"/.545 in bare gel & 11"/.551 in 4 layers of denim). While I'm not going to be getting rid of my inventory of Remington 158gr LHP +P anytime soon, I have bought some of the new 135gr +P GDHP load, and I'm currently carrying it in my 642.
Once the accuracy & controllability issues have been addressed ... for ME ... I'm concerned about placement, sufficient penetration, and then expansion ... just about in that order.