Tells? what to watch for...

[Stevie-Ray]

I live in the suburbs of a major city. These are most atypical in my area, and the ones that are like this are simply "wannabes." Why they choose to emulate this type of trash though, is beyond me.

I've found that the type is starting to disappear even from the bowels of the city. Seems someone has finally figured out that it is totally stupid rather than a desirable fashion statement and character trait.

 

[MagSxS]

I often wear a hood up or a hat in winter when it's cold.
But I always take them off upon entering a building.
It's a little thing Grandma called manners.

Yeah, I do too.

But I've seen plenty of "cool kids" wear their hoodie inside, or even outside when its fairly warm/not windy... same with beanies. I mean, it's 75º inside folks, you don't need it on.

 

[mav88]

watch out for people asking for change or money at night, in parking lot, going to your car, or apartment. Look and see where their eyes are looking, hands if in their pockets, what clothes are they wearing? (no need to wear all black clothes and blk hoodie in summer?) etc..


also if they keep INSISTING about money and begin to crown you "bubble" meaning space and coming forward.

at that time..i usually put my hand in my pocket on my revolver ready to draw..its happened to me before. Also..dont be afraid to look around and pretend to look behind you too.


Many people has gotten robbed in my area already for simply "people asking for change".
mostly women and older citizens.

 

[XpatBubba]

I am currently a gringo living in the third world. There are bad guys everywhere. It is more complicated here to know who is not a threat than who is. Basically, everyone will take your money, the trick is to not make yourself look like you have any.
Local tells here would be a person with no shoes moving toward you. People milling in the shadows, I hear them more often than see them. Two men riding on a motorcycle, think quick get away.
Drug behavior, twitchy erratic movements, scratching, eyes dialated and all over the place. A guy walking with a machete in the daytime is a gardner, night time he is either a ad guy or a watchman, depending if in a uniform or displaying any of the beforementioned behaviors
My rule here is if somebody is crowding my space I become mentally aware of 1, exit plan and 2, shooting cover.

 

[anythingshiny]

from many of the robbery vids that float out there...the fast ones are often head down, hands in pocket or hoodie and moving fast to get it started. SA would have to be tight to pick them up in time to react. the slow ones..the interviewers..the walk up and make a plan type are just as dangerous but easier to avoid and discourage i think.

dont think i posted it here..but back around christmas, my wife was 'interviewed' seriously at a local mall. did just about everything wrong but it def opened up communication lines for us as far as personal defense and SA.

 

[vox rationis]

O.O.D.A
Observe. Overreact. Destroy. Apologize.

that's a very funny spoof of the real OODA loop

 

[Kleinzeit]

a general lack of command of understandable English language

I don't get it. Do you mean, if the person is inebriated or otherwise drug affected?

Because being under-educated or coming from a non-English speaking background are not signs of criminality.

Thinking that they are might be, though.

 

[chemgirlie]

I know this isn't very specific, but anybody who, for whatever reason, just me the "heebie jeebies" gets a red flag. Sometimes it's because they are standing in front of the mall without any shopping bags not doing anything other than watching people. Sometimes it's because they look like a gang member (baggy pants, huge sports jersey, big chain necklace). Yeah, they could just like roomy pants and the cowboys, but better safe than sorry.

There really isn't one "thing" that makes a red flag go up, it's just a general feeling and impression. I think I do a lot of stereotyping. I don't think it's a bad thing either. I know you should never judge a book by its cover, but sometimes bad books do come with bad covers.

 

[Shadi Khalil]

One thing I learned is, If you are at a bar/club and grown men are looking at you and whispering in each others ears, one of two things will eventually happen; 1) You are about to get bought a drink and then propostioned to do something you might not wanna do... 2) At some point the guys who were looking at you and whispering like school girls will be kicking and stomping you like grown men. Number one has happend to me a few times but I have watched number two play out in clubs and bars through out the DC metro area.

 

[fm2]

Stranger talking to you/ trying to get your attention and looking past you and checking his 6, looking around behind him.

 

[Kleinzeit]

[Comment withdrawn. It was silly and not up to standard for this forum; my apologies.]

 

[chadwimc]

"...Because being under-educated or coming from a non-English speaking background are not signs of criminality.

Thinking that they are might be, though..."

Are you saying my thoughts are criminal?

 

[Kleinzeit]

"...Because being under-educated or coming from a non-English speaking background are not signs of criminality.

Thinking that they are might be, though..."

Are you saying my thoughts are criminal?

There's no such thing as criminal thoughts. But some attitudes suggest the possibility of criminal behavior.

When I see a person (or group of people: it's often a pack-mentality thing) who appears predisposed to act in a hostile way toward myself or another person on the basis of superficial differences, I go on alert.

I have experienced racial prejudice myself while travelling in other countries and I have seen that this prejudice will make others more likely to try to rob or assault or exploit me. If I see you behaving in a similarly prejudicial way toward someone in my community, then I will be on alert against you, too.

Prejudicial behavior includes:

1) Manifesting an overtly "vigilant" attitude in respect to the other person when what sets them apart is their skin color or accent or familiarity with English
2) Refusing to extend to them (on the same basis) the courtesies and civilities you are openly extending to others around you
3) Making it clear to them that they are being watched by you
4) Muttering and pointing at them
5) Making jokes at their expense
6) Doing nothing to hide your disdain
7) Doing anything else that makes the person feel uncomfortable to the point where they choose to leave

If I see someone behaving this way, I WILL be on alert.

Think of it as a kind of "Who's watching the watchmen?" thing. Just because you wear a gun and a white hat doesn't mean I have to trust you or respect your judgment.