But some do and they are more likely to see "heavy duty" use and conditions on a battlefield as military sidearms then in the day to day policing over here.
Just like what unit in the military matters, so does what police department. Some police officers I know, more in special detachments, are pretty hard on their sidearms. Will they match some SOF guy round for round? No, but were we to take an average across the sidearms in inventory I think it might be closer than expected. My point is not to discount police use just because it isn't from the tan, green, or blue. But I think when it comes to adverse conditions that is likely different.
You can do as I've done and measure over the next year or two and see. You can also measure the length of striker assemblies and see that in general they require more space than do many firing pins simply because they have to do more, like pre-cock.
I think the difference you might be seeing can be explained in a different way that shows that you're not losing barrel length, but gaining slide length. Were the striker assembly taking that much space over a hammer fired pistol, assuming slides of equal length, we'd see the ejection port and breechface forced forward, which would in turn limit the length of the barrel. But that assumption of equal slide length doesn't hold true. In fact on striker pistols the manufacturers often have the rear of the slide overhang the web of the hand more so than on hammer fired pistols, likely to fit in the striker assembly as you mentioned. The length of the slide forward of the ejection port relative to the barrel length is the same, it's rearward of the ejection port that changes. This would make the barrel seem shorter for a given slide, but you're not really "giving up" barrel length, you're just adding length to the slide in an area that really shouldn't matter. I don't see that as a disadvantage, but YMMV.