A .22 LR handgun is a great learning and practice tool. Mine is a Beretta Neos - funny looking, but reliable, accurate, and easy to clean.
But if someone is going to own only one gun - and lots of people do, even if it is unusual on TFL - it probably should not be a .22. A 9 mm or a .38 with some mass (i.e., not an AirWeight, maybe a K frame rather than a J frame) gives a shooter a handgun with reasonable ease of shooting that still has decent stopping power should a defensive situation arise. I would think that self defense in the home is the most common reason for the average person to buy their first handgun. IMO, a .22 is the best choice for a second handgun, but not a great first one.
I suppose the OP's choice of a .380 is a reasonable compromise, but not many people find the recoil of a 9 mm to be that objectionable.
But if someone is going to own only one gun - and lots of people do, even if it is unusual on TFL - it probably should not be a .22. A 9 mm or a .38 with some mass (i.e., not an AirWeight, maybe a K frame rather than a J frame) gives a shooter a handgun with reasonable ease of shooting that still has decent stopping power should a defensive situation arise. I would think that self defense in the home is the most common reason for the average person to buy their first handgun. IMO, a .22 is the best choice for a second handgun, but not a great first one.
I suppose the OP's choice of a .380 is a reasonable compromise, but not many people find the recoil of a 9 mm to be that objectionable.