OK, here's your answer, to appease or appeal, for both camps.
Have one of the Glock style pistol makers bring out a model with a safety lever in the approximate place and operation of a 1911 safety. UP, gun does not fire if trigger is pulled. Down/level is OFF, gun fires if trigger is pulled.
KEEP the little trigger activation switch thingy...make the safety lever removable, and a matching plug to put in place if you do.
Owner gets to choose either style, to suit their desires. One gun model does either, not one with and without.
now, if I can figure this out, why can't the gun makers?
I've been in a few (fortunately very few) high stress situations with a revolver and with an auto pistol, and FOR ME, I never mistook one for the other. Meaning, I didn't fumble trying to take the safety off a revolver, or anything like that. Didn't do an "automatic swipe" without conscious thought, when I had a revolver. DID do it without thought when I had a semi auto..
I think maybe there is enough difference, in my mind, between the two that, something below conscious level "knows" which skill set to use for what I'm carrying.
I also think that when the guns are very similar overall, that "muscle memory" skillset for one can be exactly the
wrong thing for another.
Example: Friend drops by says he saw a deer up the canyon, need to borrow rifle. All he has with him is shotgun and birdshot (is also bird season). For some reason, I get him a rifle and go with him, carrying his Browning shotgun. Not the (VERY SIMILAR) Winchester I use. Pheasant flushes. Track bird, punch safety off, pull trigger. Nothing. Blink. repeat. same. and again, as I watch him sail out of sight..Pushing off the safety at the front of the triggerguard (Winchester) only gets you a sore finger when you are holding a Browning with the safety at the back of the triggerguard!
anyone else like that out there, or am I just gifted that way??