It's all good. But I suppose I can see the OP's perspective, or at least how it seems to me.
He's an older guy with a much older gun and the gun isn't original right from the get-go, it's a conversion. He knows that a hardware change can "fix" the issue and even give him an adjustability range in his sights.
However, he doesn't need or want an adjustability range in his sights. He's been handloading for -34- years and he's very happy to tailor a load to the sights and he much prefers this idea to again alterting (or further altering) the revolver. He says this plainly and clearly in his first post. He does not wish to alter the front sight. He specifically opened this thread to discuss different options that MIGHT solve the issue WITHOUT further modifications to the revolver. He also gave evidence of how a small change at his handloading bench has partially addressed the issue.
There's many ways to skin a cat, I don't believe I've heard any BAD suggestions, but it seems obvious to me that the OP has a particular route he would rather take, even if it flies in the face of what some folks would choose if it was their revolver.