dave9969 said:I really am trying to help her out, and by an odd coincidence I'm engaged to marry her. She just does not let people do things for her, she is Stubborn!
If that's the case I suggest staying out of this altogether. She should know how to find this stuff out and probably won't appreciate your butting in.
On the other hand, if she asked for your help or you really know she wants it I think you've received some sound advice.