On thing I have found is not to baby the slide during reassembly.
Photo #39 in the manual shows holding the front of the slide when pushing the slide onto the frame; that does not work for me. What works best for me is to hold the slide serrations with my hand curled over the top of the slide, then push the slide to the rear on the frame. I can also pull the slide to the rear on the frame, as though I was racking the slide, but that nearly always results in the ejector popping up and stopping the slide from going fully on the frame.
Photo #39 in the manual shows holding the front of the slide when pushing the slide onto the frame; that does not work for me. What works best for me is to hold the slide serrations with my hand curled over the top of the slide, then push the slide to the rear on the frame. I can also pull the slide to the rear on the frame, as though I was racking the slide, but that nearly always results in the ejector popping up and stopping the slide from going fully on the frame.