It is all in the training- or lack thereof.
A manual safety definitely reduces the odds of accidentally/negligently discharging the gun when holstering/reholstering it.
It is one more barrier to overcome and takes deliberation.
That can be a great thing.
However, under heavy stress the same is true- it is one more barrier to overcome and takes deliberate action to do.
Under stress, it might slow you down a half-second [or more, depending on your reflexes].
The idea is that a shooter who trains as if they are always there will not forget.
One school of thought is as TunnelRat indicated: have all of the same type of platform [either all striker w/o TS, all striker w/TS, all DA/SA, or all SA-like 1911 or BHP].
Another school of thought is to train as if all of your semi auto handguns have thumbsafeties, and your thumb will never cause a jam, but you will never forget to sweep the safety off. This is especially important if you [llke me] want firearms from different systems, because, well, you do.
I have a M&P 9c w/o TS, and a M&P .45 full sized with. I have 1911s, BHPs, Star and Walther with. I have striker fired and DA/SA without.
The only one that the idea of training as if it is always there doesn't help with is the Walther P-1/P-38, as the safety is on the slide.
I sweep my thumb down on all of them, regardless of if there is one or not. I am not worried I'll accidently leave it on.
It feels silly on a Glock or Sig, but it makes me confident I won't forget the step under panic.
You need to get what is best for you. Down the road you can get your daughter a gun for her. Start her with a revolver? But get what is best for you.
I will say this, though. If you won't hit the range at least once a month, and won't practice ball-n-dummie drills at the range, if you won't work on safe handling at home and snap-cap trigger control practice at home, at least 2 times a month AFTER you become comfortable with it, then I recommend you consider a revolver.
I may be flamed for this, but a DA/SA revolver is what I am comfortable with my mother, my wife or my daughter shooting. It can sit for 10 years without worry about spring set affecting the recoil cycle. If a round doesn't fire, just pull the trigger a second time and the next one should- no clearance drills to get the next round in the chamber.
My ladies don't/won't go to the range more than once every 6 months, and don't do anything in between.
I would worry more about their presence of mind to clear the gun of a jam with that little practice.
A revolver is something I worry less about.
Just a thought.
Last thought: for concealed carry, I figure I'd rather have no thumb safety, as it can't get 'snicked off' in the holster by accident in an IWB holster.
If I could carry openly, or OWB, a larger gun with a thumb safety would appeal to me.
And around here, if I draw a gun to use it, I will have to be standing around for the police, and they will want it on the ground and me away from it as they walk up. I don't think I'd be reholstering it while waiting.
If I were hiking/hunting and it was a matter of non-human threats in the outdoors, reholstering is more of a concern.
For self defense, I doubt I'd get much reholstering done. But I am far from even half-way to being skilled, and way away from being an expert on these matters.
A manual safety definitely reduces the odds of accidentally/negligently discharging the gun when holstering/reholstering it.
It is one more barrier to overcome and takes deliberation.
That can be a great thing.
However, under heavy stress the same is true- it is one more barrier to overcome and takes deliberate action to do.
Under stress, it might slow you down a half-second [or more, depending on your reflexes].
The idea is that a shooter who trains as if they are always there will not forget.
One school of thought is as TunnelRat indicated: have all of the same type of platform [either all striker w/o TS, all striker w/TS, all DA/SA, or all SA-like 1911 or BHP].
Another school of thought is to train as if all of your semi auto handguns have thumbsafeties, and your thumb will never cause a jam, but you will never forget to sweep the safety off. This is especially important if you [llke me] want firearms from different systems, because, well, you do.
I have a M&P 9c w/o TS, and a M&P .45 full sized with. I have 1911s, BHPs, Star and Walther with. I have striker fired and DA/SA without.
The only one that the idea of training as if it is always there doesn't help with is the Walther P-1/P-38, as the safety is on the slide.
I sweep my thumb down on all of them, regardless of if there is one or not. I am not worried I'll accidently leave it on.
It feels silly on a Glock or Sig, but it makes me confident I won't forget the step under panic.
You need to get what is best for you. Down the road you can get your daughter a gun for her. Start her with a revolver? But get what is best for you.
I will say this, though. If you won't hit the range at least once a month, and won't practice ball-n-dummie drills at the range, if you won't work on safe handling at home and snap-cap trigger control practice at home, at least 2 times a month AFTER you become comfortable with it, then I recommend you consider a revolver.
I may be flamed for this, but a DA/SA revolver is what I am comfortable with my mother, my wife or my daughter shooting. It can sit for 10 years without worry about spring set affecting the recoil cycle. If a round doesn't fire, just pull the trigger a second time and the next one should- no clearance drills to get the next round in the chamber.
My ladies don't/won't go to the range more than once every 6 months, and don't do anything in between.
I would worry more about their presence of mind to clear the gun of a jam with that little practice.
A revolver is something I worry less about.
Just a thought.
Last thought: for concealed carry, I figure I'd rather have no thumb safety, as it can't get 'snicked off' in the holster by accident in an IWB holster.
If I could carry openly, or OWB, a larger gun with a thumb safety would appeal to me.
And around here, if I draw a gun to use it, I will have to be standing around for the police, and they will want it on the ground and me away from it as they walk up. I don't think I'd be reholstering it while waiting.
If I were hiking/hunting and it was a matter of non-human threats in the outdoors, reholstering is more of a concern.
For self defense, I doubt I'd get much reholstering done. But I am far from even half-way to being skilled, and way away from being an expert on these matters.