A S&W 642-2 or one of it's brothers should fix you right up.
S&W Model 38 in a Uncle Mike's #3 with 135gr Gold Dots
These are both excellent choices...
The older Model 38 is the same Bodyguard model.
XB just told us it is also alloy light...
The newer 642-2 is the hammerless Airweight (alloy)
The
Airweight Bodyguard and the Model 38 give access to the hammer by merely shrouding it, instead of eliminating it altogether.
Wooden grips are a very good idea...
However, there are different compounds of rubber grips, and tackiness varies, so don't rule out rubber grips altogether...
Mine are logoed with a
P and a lion with a target
Probably Pachmeyer??
My memory ain't what it used to be... sorry, but I'm sure someone will tell us... and remind me.
IMPORTANT
Use a pocket holster which keeps the gun in an upright position...
Uncle Mikes #3 is a nice one... It is suede finished on the outside and sticks to the inside of the pocket so it doesn't come out with the gun.
I have lined the
legside of my pocket holster with a scissor cut sheet of thin, hard, plastic which further facilitates a smooth draw...
Works for me.