Neither, grab a Star Firestar in 9mm,
teensyest 9mm I ever ran across, but shoots great
The .32acp I actually carry on occasion, everyone bags on,
but it's been perfectly reliable since I figured out which ammo to use...
and since the Mozambique drill is the training method of choice,
doubt there will be anyone to fuss negatively afterwards.
Whatever you choose, TRAIN WELL with it.
Someone who goes to the range and practices is going to be far more effective
than the joker who buys it, shoots it once, and then carries it for years
and might fire it once a year at the range after that.
That old guy with an old gun he's been training with monthly/quarterly for 20+ years
is usually the one that will place his bullets properly, no matter the stress.
Much of that training will transfer over to any newer gun that is bought,
as long as the training regimine is continued...