I bought my guns:
The gun show I went to was lame even with over 600 booths, the best booth was from my local dealer!
for a .357 mag, I went to his shop looked at Rugers, Taurus, etc but I really liked the S&W - I looked at a model 686 and an M60 - they were nice but didn't fit me perfectly. I wasn't looking for used, but he showed me a S&W, looked barely fired and it fit like a glove.
So, I bought it - a Model 19-4 .357/.38 - 2&1/2" Nickel Plated
For my .45 ACP, I went with the one that really fit like a glove and was the right size to CC - a Springfield XD-45 4".
Looking forward to my waiting period to be over and get them this weekend or Monday.
Thanks for all of the suggestions! Now I just have to find ammo!