I presently do and always have carried +p+ ammo in my 9 millimeters and +p in my 45s. Never had an issue with them and the recoil isn't that bad as long as you practice with it. Is it expensive? Yes. But I took a class with 500 rounds of Winchester Ranger T 127gr +p+ without any issues at all.
These days I'm mostly with Glock and Heckler and Koch pistols. Both have fared well.
Only disclaimer, is that a steady diet can wear parts down faster. I'm not one for modifying springs and such to mitigate the recoil either. So you will swap out the recoil assembly a little more frequently. Say, with Glock. Instead of 5,000 rounds down the pipe, you'd do it at 4,000. Just to stay safe."
Now, everyone is different. Some people will sound off and call this reckless, but my local LE agency has been running the aforementioned load in their 9mm Glock for over a decade now.
It's all based on your perception. My vote is good to go.