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yeah --problem is - he's family. (sort of - he was family by marriage but not anymore via divorce).
It's a complicated situation. AFAIK, his little episodes in this country have been limited to just "happy hands" and clumsy gropings. Other than that one,,(admission?/challange?), (I'm assuming most of his real nasty stuff took place in S/E Asia.),,there's just simply no proof he's done anything wrong. He's a real text book case. Salt of the earth type,,decorated combat vet.,,very well respected for his willingness to pitch in and lend a hand..good father,,good provider,,hard worker - yada yada..
His only "problem" seems to be with little girls.(and also with anyone that gets between him and little girls).
Even his admisson was absolute creep city...I'm taking hair on the back of your neck standing up wierd..
When I first heard of his problem, I tried the "That's all over with now. Try anything funny, and I kick the #$%# out of you" approach. He just stood there,,never said a word.
Maybe a year/18 months later, he and I were changing the muffler on a car I owned. The car's up on jack stands and I'm underneath. Being a Camero, it's a tight fit even on the stands. I'm pounding on a bracket when I hear him kinda mumble what I quoted above.. I slid out from underneath and looked up,,and he's just staring off into the distance,,like he's talking to himself..
Weird - scarry too. I got the heck out from under that car (Thank you Midas!!).
My take on SO's? Try 'em and fry 'em. Like I said though - it's tough. They're like these invisible people. On the outside they're one thing,, underneath,,sumpthin else. I'm 6 foot 200plus - he's 5 foot 4. I don't scare all that easy. I was scared @##@-less. I can't possibly imagine the terror a young child would feel if confronted by him...