Wow, thanks for all the replies. I'm not sure what some of the calibers are that were suggested to me as I am still very novice, but I have a much better idea of what I'm interested in now. I read as many replies as I could and did a little research before I left for the show, but I didn't have much time. And now that I'm not so rushed I can be more informative.
CWKahrFan
(I hope the OP lets us know how it went at the gun show...)
I decided to go to the gun show with a few friends of mine that knew more about guns than I. Asked about a few calibers and revolvers, one baretta in particular caught my interest. My attention was mostly grabbed by .22s, (can't help it, love them), I wasted a lot of time with them and in the end I left with one.
For those who are interested in my purchase:
A Star F Target Series, 1930-1940's, 7 inch barrel. It's pretty fun to shoot.
Most of the handguns I was interested in were just out of my price range, so I decided I'll go to the next show in a few weeks with a definite gun in mind. We went to the range after that. I tried to shoot my friend's .357 Smith & Wesson magnum again, with .38 specials. While I was much more accurate than any of my friends when firing it, after about 12 rounds my hands ached and arms felt tired. I decided to rent a baretta since I had been eyeing one at the show. I shot the PX4 Storm. (I think they were .45 ACP?) I was in love with it. Felt little recoil.
Buzzcook
If you're not challenged by shooting a .22, then you're doing something wrong.
What I meant was that I've mastered the feel of a .22, I can aim, shoot, and hit the target with ease; whereas the .357 wants to break my hands off my wrists, that's the challenge I was trying to convey. I agree with you, .22s are still very challenging skill-wise.
So, after all the events yesterday and after reading your replies I'm leaning toward a .38 special or something comparative to that baretta. I'm still looking around on the web for the right carry piece. I'm not leaning very hard toward a revolver but I'm also not excluding one. If anyone has any other suggestions I'd be very happy to read them as well.