OP - over the last 50 years, I have owned a lot of different makes/brands of handguns, rifles, shotguns, etc.
This is your "first" hand gun. I have never owned a Taurus - and all I she to go on is what is said on forums such as this. BUT . . . anyone with a lick of common sense knows enough to not believe everything that is on "the net".
Some people like Taurus . . some don't. It's more of a "personal thing" than anything else IMHO. I love Smith & Wessons - my Smith wheel guns are all "vintage:. Would I buy a "new" Smith? Certainly . . . in spite of the fat that the next guy wouldn't due to the "infamous lock".
My point is . . . give the Taurus some time. Shoot it and "learn it".NO hand gun - revolver or semi-auto is "perfect". That's because we are all "different". When I purchase a revolver - and I have many - I do it because I "like" it - maybe the feel, maybe the balance, maybe the caliber, etc. But I purchase it based on "my" criteria . . . not what others say about it. Let's face it . . . some like Fords . . other's prefer Chevy.
Use your Taurus and THEN decide if the things that "bug" you are enough for you to go to a different brand . . . just be aware that there will probably be things on those other brands that bug you as well. In the end, YOU are the one who will be shooting whatever hand gun you end up with . . . not those who have had a problem with THEIR particular hand gun so choose to bash that brand every time they turn around.
I have a number of Ruger hand guns - never had a problem with any of them. In fact, I'm getting ready to buy another used one in a caliber I just started to re-load. I posted on another four about the particular model and asked a few questions. I got many who praised theirs . . and some who hated them. Who should I believe? I much prefer to make up my own mind and i"I" am not happy . . it will be traded on something else. If not . . it will get good use.
Good luck to you but don't "let the wine spoil before you have a chance to taste it".