Hey, I like gyrls!
Welcome to the forum / madhouse on occassions *LOL*
Just don't start off with the following:
Which is best, 870 or 500
Best load for home defense, boid shot or buck shot (like ugh, DUH)
Best load for GRIZZLYS, buck shot or slugs (like ugh, DUH)
And we'll ALL get along great *LOL*