The best advice I have to offer is to let her look at as many models as you can (shooting them if at all possible) - no one can choose handguns well for another person (unless they just get lucky). My wife loves her SP101 (house gun only) - it has a great trigger pull (especially after a smith worked it over).
For my house gun, I have a Taurus 608 - 8 shots is better than 5! I have the ported stainless with 4-inch barrel and adjustable sights - other options are available. Trigger pull (though OK from factory) is vastly improved with Wolff reduced pull springs - only about $12 and easily installed.
I sometimes carry a Taurus Titanium 85, but recoil is severe with heavier bullets, though 110 grain (or less) rounds are OK, even in +P. If recoil is the issue, the 608 is the ticket, though it is large & hefty (of course, that what makes it easier to shoot).
Neither of us cared for Colt snubbies, though many people favor them. I have observed that J-frames are more punishing for many people's hands (including mine and my wife's) than other snubbies, primarily because of the housing over the hammer area.
To each his (her) own (firearms)!!! Good luck!!!
For my house gun, I have a Taurus 608 - 8 shots is better than 5! I have the ported stainless with 4-inch barrel and adjustable sights - other options are available. Trigger pull (though OK from factory) is vastly improved with Wolff reduced pull springs - only about $12 and easily installed.
I sometimes carry a Taurus Titanium 85, but recoil is severe with heavier bullets, though 110 grain (or less) rounds are OK, even in +P. If recoil is the issue, the 608 is the ticket, though it is large & hefty (of course, that what makes it easier to shoot).
Neither of us cared for Colt snubbies, though many people favor them. I have observed that J-frames are more punishing for many people's hands (including mine and my wife's) than other snubbies, primarily because of the housing over the hammer area.
To each his (her) own (firearms)!!! Good luck!!!