I make a living cleaning fish, have for almost 30 years. Spent some time commercial crabbing, set a few gill nets and even owned a shrimp boat for a couple of years, which by the way is a great path to the poor house if you have someone else run it.
One of the things we sell in our fishmarket is live Maine lobsters. Usually the customers take them home alive, same with crabs and ocassionally eels too. Sometimes though we get a customer that wants a lobster but they just can not get past the fact that she, and yes it has always been women who've done this, has to kill her own food.
What the customer will do is ask us to kill them for her. Of course we do this. But if I have the chance I never miss the oportunity to needle them. My standard line is to tell her that while what she may see in the mirror every moring is a nice lady what every other animal on the planet sees is the most fearsom creature the planet has ever spawned.
That usually gets a smile and much to the credit of most of them a admission that it really makes no sense that they can't kill it themselves.
And one more thought........
My wife is kind of a Elly May, lots of animals over the course of 30 years of marrage. Everything from cats to emues, to nutrias, snakes and skunks, just about anything she can find she'll bring home. She does some of her own vet work, neutered sheep and goats and sown up a animal or two.
And when one needs to be put out of its misery she weilds a mean shovel.
Now for some this may sound harsh but follow me here. If you really love one of your aniumals, say a cat, and that cat has come to the point where it is suffering with no real hope for recovery what do you do? Do you load that cat up and carry it to the vet so the vet can give it a shot or do you do it.
I would argue that the one situation is harder on the cat and easier on you, the other being the opposite.
I'd say without reservation that it's far harder on a cat to be loaded up and carred to the vet, with all the strange smells and noises, not to mention the fear of car ride, than is is for it to be put down quickly in familar suroundings by loving hands. Sure it's hard to pull the trigger on a cat you've had sense it was a kitten but if you really care about the animal then at the very end of it's life you need to do the hard thing for you and save it all the unnecessary suffering of that ride to the vet.
Hard on you, easier on it..............
One of the things we sell in our fishmarket is live Maine lobsters. Usually the customers take them home alive, same with crabs and ocassionally eels too. Sometimes though we get a customer that wants a lobster but they just can not get past the fact that she, and yes it has always been women who've done this, has to kill her own food.
What the customer will do is ask us to kill them for her. Of course we do this. But if I have the chance I never miss the oportunity to needle them. My standard line is to tell her that while what she may see in the mirror every moring is a nice lady what every other animal on the planet sees is the most fearsom creature the planet has ever spawned.
That usually gets a smile and much to the credit of most of them a admission that it really makes no sense that they can't kill it themselves.
And one more thought........
My wife is kind of a Elly May, lots of animals over the course of 30 years of marrage. Everything from cats to emues, to nutrias, snakes and skunks, just about anything she can find she'll bring home. She does some of her own vet work, neutered sheep and goats and sown up a animal or two.
And when one needs to be put out of its misery she weilds a mean shovel.
Now for some this may sound harsh but follow me here. If you really love one of your aniumals, say a cat, and that cat has come to the point where it is suffering with no real hope for recovery what do you do? Do you load that cat up and carry it to the vet so the vet can give it a shot or do you do it.
I would argue that the one situation is harder on the cat and easier on you, the other being the opposite.
I'd say without reservation that it's far harder on a cat to be loaded up and carred to the vet, with all the strange smells and noises, not to mention the fear of car ride, than is is for it to be put down quickly in familar suroundings by loving hands. Sure it's hard to pull the trigger on a cat you've had sense it was a kitten but if you really care about the animal then at the very end of it's life you need to do the hard thing for you and save it all the unnecessary suffering of that ride to the vet.
Hard on you, easier on it..............