Glenn E. Meyer
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I broached the dreaded FNG, Gabe - not anyone else. Moi.
That's because while I disagree with Armstrong on particulars of his analysis - one should challenge one's world view every once in awhile. You should test your assumptions. The argument is a good one for the overly reckless, IMHO. Certainly, we see them in firearms debates. Some trainer friends of mine throw them out of a class or two when they find folks who just want to fight.
Is the subtlety in this debate, whether your action will have the intended impact with some reasonable probability? And are you willing to accept your own loss to accomplish this goal.
If not, is your probable loss worth it?
That might be too cognitive for some.
In Gabe's scenario, the husband probably
could have gained time or dealt with the assailant. He was not acting well.
Neither did the police who seemed to have overwhelming force. Were they disciplined?
As far as the psychological stuff - I've actually asked folk who know if losing you and stopping the attack is better for the victim then being assaulted and having you for support later.
In cases of rape and torture, sacrifice yourself. It's a better outcome for your loved ones. So thinks a PTSD expert.
Kind of a coldblooded decision but since the other was position has been expoused (better to be a good witness and supportive), I go ask. Note, that this has never been researched so it is just opinion from someone who treats a lot of such trauma and knows the literature extremely well.
The argument hinges on whether your action can stop the assault - that's where I disagree with some of the FNG scenarios. A good response stands the chance of disrupting
the attack. Of course, you versus the Red Army - is a loser but with most reasonable scenarios with training and ferocity you have a chance to disrupt. Of course, you might die.
The pure FNG, you have no chance and you just die for nothing. If that truly is the case, then you should make the rational response and tough it out and deal with the psychological consequences to yourself of not being manly later. But when is it truly the case?
Was the NYC case, one of these - probably not? Or was it?
I don't know if I am saying this well but isn't it about the BPO (Best probable outcome)?
Is a -5 better than a -10?
Back to specifics:
1. Fight for the family for even the smallest probability of success.
2. NYC - have I said this elsewhere - in this specific instance, I would have use the trick from my kid days in Brooklyn - I would have found an officer and told them that a cop was in trouble at the place of the incident.
I would lie. That's if it's me by my lonesome. With a team of folks, then LawDog's suggestion sounds good.
Sorry to start a subthread that drives good men mad
That's because while I disagree with Armstrong on particulars of his analysis - one should challenge one's world view every once in awhile. You should test your assumptions. The argument is a good one for the overly reckless, IMHO. Certainly, we see them in firearms debates. Some trainer friends of mine throw them out of a class or two when they find folks who just want to fight.
Is the subtlety in this debate, whether your action will have the intended impact with some reasonable probability? And are you willing to accept your own loss to accomplish this goal.
If not, is your probable loss worth it?
That might be too cognitive for some.
In Gabe's scenario, the husband probably
could have gained time or dealt with the assailant. He was not acting well.
Neither did the police who seemed to have overwhelming force. Were they disciplined?
As far as the psychological stuff - I've actually asked folk who know if losing you and stopping the attack is better for the victim then being assaulted and having you for support later.
In cases of rape and torture, sacrifice yourself. It's a better outcome for your loved ones. So thinks a PTSD expert.
Kind of a coldblooded decision but since the other was position has been expoused (better to be a good witness and supportive), I go ask. Note, that this has never been researched so it is just opinion from someone who treats a lot of such trauma and knows the literature extremely well.
The argument hinges on whether your action can stop the assault - that's where I disagree with some of the FNG scenarios. A good response stands the chance of disrupting
the attack. Of course, you versus the Red Army - is a loser but with most reasonable scenarios with training and ferocity you have a chance to disrupt. Of course, you might die.
The pure FNG, you have no chance and you just die for nothing. If that truly is the case, then you should make the rational response and tough it out and deal with the psychological consequences to yourself of not being manly later. But when is it truly the case?
Was the NYC case, one of these - probably not? Or was it?
I don't know if I am saying this well but isn't it about the BPO (Best probable outcome)?
Is a -5 better than a -10?
Back to specifics:
1. Fight for the family for even the smallest probability of success.
2. NYC - have I said this elsewhere - in this specific instance, I would have use the trick from my kid days in Brooklyn - I would have found an officer and told them that a cop was in trouble at the place of the incident.
I would lie. That's if it's me by my lonesome. With a team of folks, then LawDog's suggestion sounds good.
Sorry to start a subthread that drives good men mad