Regarding the M16 (or any weapon), recoil will not tear the head off the casing. What tears the head off is timing, or rather, bad timing. When the action unlocks and tries to extract the case before the pressure in the chamber has dropped enough, then you get extractors tearing through rims or heads torn off. Or badly rusted/corroded chambers, causing the case to stick after the pressure drops can give the same result. Yes, it did happen to M16s in Vietnam. But it wasn't recoil that did it.while the hard recoiling bolt tore the head off the casing
The M60 is similar in general appearance to the MG42, because its a very efficient shape for a LMG. The M60 feed mechanism (those parts inside the feed cover) are very close copies of the MG42. However, other than the use of stampings, thats where the similarities end.
The M60 is gas operated. The MG42 is not. The M60 bolt and op rod are nothing like the MG42.
According to what I have heard, US attempts to produce copies of the MG42 for our own use (during or just after WWII) failed, because of a simple, small oversight. We made barrels for the .30-06, but didn't change anything else of the gun, so the .30-06 MG42 coipies didn't work well. The '06 case is 6mm longer than the 8mm Mauser.