Always funny to see someone else posting a picture of your gun.
Clark Meltdowns aren't for everyone, which is probably why they have backed off on how much they cut guns down, the more recent Meltdowns that I've seen are less radically smoothed out than the older ones. But, if you want one Clark's is the place to go. Manufacturer's have done their own versions, like Kimber's Ultra CDP but they're much less melted than Clark's work.
Clark's did the original work on my gun back in '98, not long after they first started offering the Meltdown package. They parkerized it after the melt and the finish was showing some wear by the time I got the gun from the original owner. I had it polished and blued and some other work done by a local 'smith about 5 years ago. A melted gun is probably the most comfortable to carry piece you'll find. There are no sharp edges to poke at you, hang up on fabric or wear on your clothing.
As far as bluing is concerned, how it holds up is totally dependent on how you care for it, there are waxes that really help to protect the finish. Hard chrome is a great finish and super tough, it also takes on whatever the surface texture you apply it to is - hard chrome polished metal and it'll be bright and shiny, apply it to a matte surface and it will be matte. It holds up incredibly well, I've had guns that were hard chromed 20-30 years ago and the finish looks practically new.
And, as far as customizing a 1911 or any other gun, I say have at it. You bought , you own it, do whatever you like with it. If someone else doesn't like it , who cares?
Here's a couple more recent pics of my Meltdown-