Thanks for the help!
I would like to thank everyone who gave input on this topic. I have looked at several of the alternatives given. My thinking at this point is as follows:
Since I will be using it infrequently for target practice and to loan to others to “try out” I don’t think an outlay of near $1000 is justified. Yes, they are nice but really not what I want. Good point about having one dropped at the range.
It won’t be a home defense gun; I prefer a good .357 revolver and 12 ga shotgun for that need. So a few FTF or FTE or stove pipe jams at the range can be taken as “cost of doing business” for purchasing a lower cost “starter” gun. I really don’t mind.
Being left handed, ambidextrous controls would have been nice, but jacks the price up too high. So I will learn to shoot right handed or always switch hands to run the controls. Again, infrequent use so not a problem.
Several advised (wisely) to get the basics then add do-dads and frills after some time passes. I think I will follow this advice.
Of the guns I have researched, there are two that come close to what I would like: both are from Springfield Armory the Mil-Spec and Loaded. Yes, I understand that Kimber makes a good product as well, but their prices are higher for similar features.
The Mil-Spec is about $499 and the Loaded goes for $775. At this time I am leaning to the Mil-Spec. If you have experience with either of these please add to the thread. Is there really a $275 difference in the two after reading my wants and wishes above?
Would I regret the lower priced one quicker and need some feature of the higher right away?
Again, thanks for all of your help and insights. I really appreciate having this forum to find out things a local dealer just won’t say.
Michael.