You do not have a RIGHT to defend yourself under the law - that's why the States have statutes that define the framework for JUSTIFIABLE use of deadly force. Justifiable - as in you have to be able to show that your decision to use deadly force was both reasonable and protected you from IMMEDIATE danger of serious injury or death.
The Bill of Rights pretty much sums up what inalienable rights we have - "Self Defense" isn't listed.
Just as there are "rights" inumerated in the Constitution itself with the preamble that they are "God given", so is the right to defend oneself "God given".
Perhaps it's because that defending that which you possess including your life, family and possessions was so obviously assumed by the Founding Fathers that it would have seemed silly to them to have to put it into words.
When society in the US starts arguing whether or not we have the right to defend ourselves, then we have lost our way.
And garyfdl; I agree that the definitive answers you are looking for can come only from your state's laws. In Texas, we are given a nifty little pamphlet that defines, very clearly, the answers to the kind of questions you ask. When your state allows CCW carry, I have no doubt that you will be supplied with the same material appropriate to your state.
Beyond that, however, someone who is too worried about the fine points of the law and does not
trust themselves to actually
KNOW when to pull the trigger should probably reconsider carrying at all.
When push comes to shove, indecision can be just as deadly.
All of us who take on the responsiblity that comes with the ability to quickly and easily end a life have to be willing to trust ourselves and our judgement more than the law. Those who doubt their own judgement and instead rely on the "law" in the hope of making them immune from prosecution should not be carrying.
The biggest worry I have is not that the law will fail me, but that my judgement will fail me.
If my judgement in retrospect turns out to have been right, then I have successfully saved my life or the life of a loved one, and I don't give a damn what the law says.
If my judgement in retrospect turns out to have been wrong, then I have killed needlessly and will have to accept any legal decision that comes of that.
If that's too much of a weight, then don't carry. If the moment arrives where you have less than a fraction of a second to draw and fire, you will not have time to work out all the legal ramifications in your head. It's just you, and the split-second decision to fire. That's all you're going to have to work with, and the consequences of that decision will all have to be worked out later because you're just a little too busy at the moment.
That's the weight you carry when you "carry".
Carter