Lapping is for improving minute ring misalignment. Bending scope tube is gross misalignment, which should be fixed by proper ring installation, correct drilling and tapping, or even shimming.
That's the point of my instructor. If the rings are installed correctly, lapping is just icing on the cake. Most of the time it makes insignificant difference. To do the job right, instead of trying to correct the mistake afterwards, that's what he was trying to pound into our head.
Anyway, for just holding the scope in place, lapping is probably not needed. Correct ring size and proper torque on the screws should suffice. Rosin or other stuff will further help.
-TL