OK, here it is to the best of my knowledge.
The frame sizes were originally used only by the factory in the assembly shops. The frame sizes didn't really become common knowledge or use in outside until after WW II. Prior to that the guns were really known by names, not frame sizes or model numbers.
Why they started where they did, instead of at A, B, C, etc., I don't know. I've never really seen an explanation for it.
The letters were adopted because while the Hand Ejectors were in production the break tops were also still being produced. There was an overlap of about 30 years.
The break tops were known by their frame size numbers: the 1 1/2 were the small frame .22 & .32s, the No. 2s were mid-size .38s, and the No. 3s were the large calibers, such as the .45 S&W, .44 American and Russian, etc.
Here's the rundown on S&W letter frame sizes:
I frame - The original hand ejector frame, introduced around 1896. These were chambered in .22, .32 Long (a VERY few were chambered in .32 S&W, and bring SERIOUS collector prices), and .38 S&W.
An improved I-frame introduced S&W's first use of coil springs only a few years before the introduction of the J-frame.
J-frame - After WW II, the company wanted to chamber the .38 Spl. cartridge in a small gun suitable for police undercover use. The I-frame was too small to take this chambering, so the J-frame was introduced in the 1950s.
The J-frame has been chambered in .22, .32 Long, .32 H&R Mag., .38 Spl., and in a slightly enlarged version in the past few years, .357 Mag.
K-frame - The "classic" S&W .38 revolver, introduced around 1899, and over the years chambered in .22, .32 Long & Mag., .38, .357, and a very few test guns for the Army in .30 Carbine.
L-frame - As police began to transition to the .357 Mag. for both training and carry (as opposed to training with .38 Spl. and carrying the .357 Mag.) the drawbacks of the K-frame became apparent in that they would, given a stead diet of Mag. ammo, begin to shoot loose.
The L-frame was introduced in the early 1980s to counteract that by beefing up the frame size and weight of the gun, but retaining the K-frames grip dimensions. Grips are interchangable between the K and L frames. The L-frame is almost exclusively .357 Mag. territory, although they have been produced in .38 Spl. on contract (mainly for South American police forces). The 696 in .44 Spl. is also an L-frame.
M-frame - The smallest Hand Ejector ever built, and in production from 1902 to about 1922. These were the original "LadySmith" branded guns. They were 7-shot .22s, and came in three separate models. All three are HIGHLY collectible, and bring serious prices.
N-frame - The largest of S&W's revolvers. These have been chambered in .22 Jet/Long Rifle, .38 Spl., .38-44 Heavy Duty (the original +P .38 Spl. round), .357 Mag., .41 Mag., .44 Mag., .45 ACP, .45 Long Colt, .45 S&W, .44 Russian, .44 Special, .32-20, and a few dozen test guns in .30 Carbine for the Army.
As for how do you tell the difference just by looking at the guns, it takes time to develop an "eye" for seeing the size difference. I've been working with S&W revolvers for so long that I can tell right off what frame size a gun is, even without picking it up.
There is no other single feature that will allow you to conclusively tell the frame size every time, because they can be very similar.
Example - Virtually all L-frames have a full-underlug barrel. But, so too did many later production J and N frames.
NOTE: The calibers listed above are by no means exhaustive (except for the M-frame, which only came in .22 LR).
Other chamberings were also included, especially on foreign military contract guns (i.e., N-frames during WW I in .455 for the British and Canadians, and K-frames during WW II in .380/200 for Britain and other Commonwealth nations).
There have also been some pretty rare chamberings made for experimental purposes, such as the .30 Carbine that I listed above.
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Beware the man with the S&W .357 Mag.
Chances are he knows how to use it.
[This message has been edited by Mike Irwin (edited October 06, 2000).]