I understand, Carry, and my last comments weren't specifically aimed at anyone, and definitely not you. You seem to be of the philosophy, that I cater to.
I neither condemn nor advocate ANY one way to do anything, and merely want to advise that, folks should do what they feel the most comfortable with, AFTER a good preponderance of the facts.
Any experiences that I can relate to another, can only offer more substance to their thought process. I try to refrain from propagating falsehoods, hearsay, and ill-informed opinions.
Although, if I truly believe in a particular opinion, and have weighed it thoroughly, I may submit it to another with such tact, that it bears significantly on the argument, at hand.
I call it, "Instigation with a Positive Purpose"...