Your point, I think, is that it's too easy to blame the ammo when the gun might be at fault...
No, my point was that it is the combination of the gun and the ammo that can be to blame, not either the gun or the ammo (although this does happen often, perhaps more often)
Why focus on "pocket autos?" You seem to be arguing that the gun's design (locked breech or blowback) and size are key factors in assuring reliability.
No, what I was arguing was that since the .22LR is found in all sizes and styles of pistols, even if its failure rate were identical with something else, it would seem to be greater.
The .22LR has several things stacked against it when it comes to reliability in an autopistol. First is the "inherent" failure rate of rimfire ignition. Second is the round's size, design, and construction, and third are the guns themselves.
So, the failure rate to cycle reliably in all guns is lower than centerfires.
One fellow once said that he believed that the only reason the .25Auto (.25ACP) still existed was that, unlike .22s they almost never jam. He was referring to the tiny pocket autos, and FMJ .25ACP ammo. Quite simply, while the lead bullet of the .22 might do more damage the FMJ .25 in the bad guy, being able to reliably count on getting A bullet into the bad guy counted for more.
My story about the S&W 41 the Ruger & the CCI blazer was to illustrate how an gun (even a high end gun) can get ammo it chokes on, and that same ammo can be fine in a different gun. And that different gun might choke on ammo the first gun eats like candy. .22s are like that.
Most of them run fine on almost everything, some don't.
I'll grant you the cartridge has a lot to do with reliability, but the gun plays its part too, and that part is not insignificant.
I agree a bottle neck cartridge would enter the chamber with greater ease but beyond that I think the 9mm is superior. The main body of 357 Sig is about the same as the 40S&W, the more surface area of the cartridge makes for higher force needed to chamber IMO.
While you can measure the difference in the surface area of the case bodies, and calculate the difference in the friction between the 9mm Luger and the .357 Sig, I believe that while measurable, the difference in friction between the two is, in practical terms, insignificant.
Bottle necked rounds feed well because they are essentially tapered cones going into a round hole. Any errors in alignment are overcome by the centering effect of the taper. When you are loading a straight case, at speed the way an autoloader does, you must obtain, and maintain very precise alignment of the round so it will feed smoothly into a hole only a very few thousandths of an inch larger than the ammo itself.
The larger, and particularly longer the case is, the more important the alignment and maintaining it through the feeding cycle, becomes.