As a motorcycle rider of 43 years and close to 300,000 accident-free miles, I like the analogy several on this thread have drawn. I didn't get this far in one piece by relaxing on the road, and I never relax at the range either. Mine usually has at least two range officers working, but unless the place is crowded, like on a weekend, they are usually in the shack ... that's why I only shoot on weekdays, when the range is pretty empty and most of those there are older and know what they're doing. Since many states don't require much of anything other than a fee for a concealed license, having one hardly qualifies you as a trainer. When my wife and I bought a Mossberg 500 for home defense, I hired a police trainer to teach us both how to use it. He spent two of our six hours on safely; we both handled the gun unloaded and repeatedly demonstrated safe operation before we went on to actually shoot it. would you try to rebuild your car engine yourself? leave that -- and training loved ones to handle weapons -- to the experts. IMHO, o'course ...