Why do you feel uncomfortable with a striker?
Personally, I like DA/SA as a safe carry method. I don't like manual safety switches. I like all my safety built into the trigger. I also like the feedback of a hammer when reholstering. Unfortunately, the revolution in small single-stacks has mostly been in the world of strikers.
There is an exception worth noting. The Walther P99 is striker-fired but can be run in DA/SA. It has a decocker and no manual safety. It's relatively compact for the full-sized category and the compact is decent for a double-stack. It's light and works well in 9mm. The stock trigger is excellent.
For a larger hammer-fired gun, I really like the PX4 Storm with low-profile decockers installed. There is an upgraded compact version which comes that way but I haven't had a chance to try it. If you prefer metal and feel like spending, Sig has a bunch of options. (I'm still kicking myself for not buying the optimized P239 SAS Gen II when it was available.) As others have suggested, the PCR might be worth checking out.