JenniPooh, I think ya done good! I find that I'd rather shoot my cap and ball revolvers even more than my "modern" cartridge-firing handguns! With cartridge handguns you just drop the cartridge in (however it's actually loaded) and pull the trigger, then repeat.
The cap and ball revolver gets one involved in the whole process - measuring and dumping the powder, pressing in the ball, putting the percussion cap on the nipple - and when you shoot it, there's a satisfying BOOM, and SMOKE, and FLAMES and SPARKS shooting out the front! It's a real hoot. (And you spend 30-seconds shooting and 10 minutes in the loading process - so you appreciate the shooting more and spend less money on ammo. Plus, you don't feel obligated to pick up the brass!)
Cleaning it isn't as big a deal as other's are making it out to be. A bucket of soapy water - it's just about like washing the dishes. I don't remove the nipples from the cylinder for each cleaning, either, but maybe about every third or fourth cleaning. And for lube, I use Crisco - same stuff you use when you bake cookies! (For "modern" guns you need all of these smelly, caustic, carcinogenic chemicals to clean 'em.)
And, sure, your husband can load it. Heck, I've got a picture of my (then) 12 or 13-year old daughter shooting my 1860 Army revolver, which is similar to the one you bought for your husband except it's .44 caliber where yours is .36. Maybe YOU should get your husband to show YOU how to load and shoot it, after he get's it down. The family that shoots together stays together, as they say.
The cap and ball revolver gets one involved in the whole process - measuring and dumping the powder, pressing in the ball, putting the percussion cap on the nipple - and when you shoot it, there's a satisfying BOOM, and SMOKE, and FLAMES and SPARKS shooting out the front! It's a real hoot. (And you spend 30-seconds shooting and 10 minutes in the loading process - so you appreciate the shooting more and spend less money on ammo. Plus, you don't feel obligated to pick up the brass!)
Cleaning it isn't as big a deal as other's are making it out to be. A bucket of soapy water - it's just about like washing the dishes. I don't remove the nipples from the cylinder for each cleaning, either, but maybe about every third or fourth cleaning. And for lube, I use Crisco - same stuff you use when you bake cookies! (For "modern" guns you need all of these smelly, caustic, carcinogenic chemicals to clean 'em.)
And, sure, your husband can load it. Heck, I've got a picture of my (then) 12 or 13-year old daughter shooting my 1860 Army revolver, which is similar to the one you bought for your husband except it's .44 caliber where yours is .36. Maybe YOU should get your husband to show YOU how to load and shoot it, after he get's it down. The family that shoots together stays together, as they say.