I have worked in emergency medicine for quite a few years and I have seen the results of leaving guns out where children can get them. That is a tragedy that is incomprehensible. It tears a family up dealing with that. I would rather leave my guns locked up so no one can get them than live with the fact that one of my kids killed themselves or some one else with one. Also my wife has said she does not have what it takes to shoot some one, so in the safe they go, no need in arming the bad guy so he can do more.
grubbylabs-I see your side and understand it fully.I just think we look at things a bit differently.I still feel you should have a gun of some sort close by that can be secured so no one but you can access it.
My 13 year old daughter doesn't live with me,and shes scared to death of guns since me and her mother have been divorced since she was 3.Sadly i just got back into guns this year after a 20 year absence and have had no positive influence on her about guns,but im trying.
When she is here my guns get put up and she doesn't even know where,she wouldn't touch them even if she did know.
I know this is a different subject,but id like to share it also.
It really bugs me my daughter is scared of guns and feel they are only made to kill people.This is what her mom and her side of the family has taught her,as well as the school systems in Ohio.
I slowly try and speak with her about this and why her concerns are based on fears of other people and she should think for herself.Every chance i get when go to the range i ask her to go,and also tell her if im bugging her about it to tell me and ill stop asking.But she has shown interest in Airsoft guns,i just bought one a few days back.The next time shes is out and i get paid im gonna teach her gun safety and how to shoot airsoft and then go buy her one.It will stay at my house so it can only be used under my supervision.
And hopefully one day she will want to shoot my .22 and .25 and see guns can also be a fun hobby,and a way to protect yourself,especially as a woman.
Both my parents have a handgun within arms reach when they are awake,and both will kill an intruder.Id still grab my SG over my .45's if im in my bedroom when an "EVENT" may happen,if im not there i have my P238 on my side at all times.
We dont have a fenced in yard,and tying a dog up outside i dont find to be a very humane thing.If i was to have a dog it would be a house dog,but i dont like all the care they need.Dogs are dang needy animals.
I like cats and have 2,they are useless against intruders.But easy to take care of and dont bug me.Id still love an English bull dog or Basset hound,but with my cats thats gonna gonna be anytime soon.
We do have a security light,and dead bolts.We live in a smallish town with 2 stop lights.But that doesn't mean we shouldn't be ready for anything.Thats why im prepared as much as i can,but since its my parents house and im on a low fixed income there isnt much else i can do.