Thank you, Buzz. I was getting a little tired of the simulated street-brawl with Bill T.
Well, therein lies the rub, right? You're saying to me that the only way to deal with the problem of not wanting to be associated with the negative stereotype is to deal with it and join, right? If I just join up, then I can try to change the stereotype one person at a time, as I meet them and they see that I'm not some war-crazed survivalist stock-piling MRE's and sitting in his radiation-proof basement stroking his latest copy of Soldier of Fortune magazine.
Certainly, other stereotypes (racial, sexist, etc...) have been broken in this way, through slow change, one person at a time. But, it doesn't help the fact that to make this change, I have to actually become affiliated with a stereotype that I do not want to be affiliated with.
If you don't want to be associated, the best way is to be associated??? Is there anything ELSE I can do???
Well, therein lies the rub, right? You're saying to me that the only way to deal with the problem of not wanting to be associated with the negative stereotype is to deal with it and join, right? If I just join up, then I can try to change the stereotype one person at a time, as I meet them and they see that I'm not some war-crazed survivalist stock-piling MRE's and sitting in his radiation-proof basement stroking his latest copy of Soldier of Fortune magazine.
Certainly, other stereotypes (racial, sexist, etc...) have been broken in this way, through slow change, one person at a time. But, it doesn't help the fact that to make this change, I have to actually become affiliated with a stereotype that I do not want to be affiliated with.
If you don't want to be associated, the best way is to be associated??? Is there anything ELSE I can do???