If I can just address the elephant in the room, please avoid lee equipment. You are wanting to make a single time, lifelong investment.
I would recommend nearly any other press, one with an O frame, cast iron (not pot metal).
A four hole turret will be very handy, as switching out dies as you fool around with something can be a lot of time. Get a hand priming press. a scale is mandatory, and I would suggest a digital, I guess. A pair of calipers is mandatory. A kit isn't such a bad idea. a top grade measure such as the rcbs uniflow is mandatory. I'm thinking about my bench, and can't think of much right now.
Get a dozen boxes to fit your ammo, large rifle, medium rifle, pistol fifty count, etc, and an assortment of loading blocks. You can actually use the common .45 acp ammo blocks that wind up on the ground at the range. Pick up about five sets of safety glasses, industrial bulk. Get a magnifying glass, and reading glasses. lens cleaning materials; if you are looking over dirty glasses when that primer blows and throws flaming powder over your face, why bother wearing them?
Im going to recommend the kit, hornady, redding, lyman, rcbs, there are others out there.
Don't waste your time buying cheap equipment! you want to make good ammo, you want it to last, you want it to work. THIS STUFF IS CHEAP! what have you spent on ammo or firearms over the past ten years? is dropping a few hundred on a press and equipment an insane thing to do, compared to the thousands of dollars that you have probably spent in the past decade? maybe you're someone who owns a great truck. Did you cut corners on your vehicle to the point that you're afraid of your tires? paying for middle or high grade equpment only costs 20-40% of what your basic stuff sells for. If you are used to good tools, you will appreciate it. then again, maybe youre the kind of guy who has a hammer in the kithen drawer next to a battery operated screwdriver, and having top drawer products doesnt matter. It's your choice, but a lot of people will agree with this, but there will be a number of people who don't