Had no gun enthusiasts in my family, though my Dad had been somewhat of a minor enthusiast many years before I was born. He was sick for almost all of my life, and he had intentions of getting me started in shooting, but we didn't make much progress. He did support and assist me in getting started with an air rifle, which I spawned in to a ridiculous volume of pellet & BB gun shooting in the basement. I believe I built a foundation for shooting handguns... with BB and pellet guns in my basement.
From the earliest age I could recall, Dad would
always let me get the .22 rifles and couple of 12ga shotguns out to inspect and ask questions about when I asked. Inevitably, I would also ask when we could actually shoot them and his answer was always "when you are ready..." and I would come back with, "well, when is that?" and he would reply
"when you have grown out of running around the neighborhood with toy guns, shooting at your friends and playing 'war.' " He had no problem whatsoever with my desire to run around with toy guns as my friends and I did so often, but he felt the two wouldn't mix. I truly don't know if he was right -- but I can honestly say that I was
not ready to give up my gaggle of toy guns and the crazy fun we had running around the neighborhood for the chance to go shooting a .22 rifle.
It was in May that he passed away and perhaps a couple of weeks later that my Mom took me out to some friends of the family just outside town and asked that the gentleman get me started shooting. He was an avid hunter and kitchen table FFL. We brought our rifles, our ammo, and he got me rolling. Near the end of the day, he brought out two of his handguns to close out the session, and offered each for me to try. A Ruger Single Six (.22LR) and a Ruger Security Six, with .357 Magnum ammo. I asked him to shoot the .357 first, so I could see the action
as I was hesitant. He refused, told me that I didn't have to shoot it if I didn't care to, but that if I wanted to see it make noise, I'd be the one to do it.
So I did it.
I was hooked, full-boat, and right off the deep end.
It couldn't have been more than a couple of weeks after that... Mom joined us both up in the Sportsman's Club in the next town over. (closest one!) She got involved with the joint, giving them the desperate help they needed running their finances... and I got on the smallbore rifle team, we both began shooting skeet on Sundays and within months... I was shooting some kind of firearm on 4 or 5 days out of every 7 day week.
For Christmas that year, 7 months after my Dad was gone, Mom bought me a Smith & Wesson Model 17-6, a gorgeous K-22 with the three T's. I've been a hardcore handgun enthusiast for what seems like
forever, though I started shooting actual handguns later in life than many. I was 15 years old when I squeezed the trigger on a live round for the first time.
My Mom put a lot of heart, energy, MONEY & effort in to getting me in to shooting, no doubt. She has zero regrets and just loves to hear & see whatever new fun handgun I've recently come up with. I've thanked her many, many times.