Hi Redworm,
Your problem is shared by many today who do not believe the authority of the Bible as God?s revealed truth to mankind. One?s conscience can only operate within the parameters it understands. A native raised as a headhunter thinks that headhunting is moral, if he ever thinks of morality.
[Just because you find cohabitation and homosexuality immoral doesn't mean it is. What's immoral about sharing an apartment with a roommate? What's immoral about being with someone you love?]
There are moral absolutes. I do not define what is moral. Only God can do that, and He has in his Word. He has given some clear instructions and commands as to what is moral and immoral, and they are absolutes. He does not need either your or my approval as He is sovereign. If you reject that then who or what is to define morality? It is harmful to a society, and all you have to do is to look at things like teen pregnancy, and AIDS to see that.
[The difference is that I think that's one of society's greatest accomplishments. Not everyone believes in the same thing you do, try to remember that.]
Strange that you would find it a great accomplish to reject God, the Creator of the universe. But you are not alone. Those who do that will stand before Christ at the Great White Throne Judgment, Revelation 20, and spend eternity in Hell. Not much of an accomplishment.
[Didn't some persian jewish guy once say "Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye."]
I totally accept that. However, it is not well understood. Note that he is talking to hypocrites who were doing that for which they condemned others. Then, Jesus said, "first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye."
Note that he never said that one couldn?t make judgments, but judgments must be made without hypocrisy, and in accordance with His words.
In fact, we are commanded to make judgments as the Bible tells us not to have fellowship with certain people, and homosexuals would be one group.
Jesus said that we could know men by their fruits.
You see you have no understanding of the passage, but use it to deflect one from making judgments that we are commanded to make.
I fully expect to be judged by the judgments I make. They are in the Bible and pertain to me and to you, and to all mankind.
Have a good day,
Jerry