Methinks the civility here outweighs the un-civility by a vast ratio. Enough so that I've never bothered with the Ignore list. This place set the standard I judge any 'Net forum by, which was continued over at THR during the shutdown and still prevails at both sites. I never bother to so much as try to go anyplace else, and I think that size of the memberships of both reflect that. Politenes is appreciated by the polite, and most folks are.
As for the argument-testing idea, I actually see that concept as a good thing. If the anti's want to come here and sharpen their arguments on the likes of US, so much the better.
Sharpening a knife by using the steel of another leaves BOTH edges sharper. For what it's worth, I tend to think that OUR knife is made of better steel, and is wielded with better technique, thereby assuring our eventual success. This helps me stave off the unremitting depression that accompanies living in this gawd-awful leftist pesthole, something I find neccessary to my continued survival.
Yes, it IS that bad here, beautiful living conditions notwithstanding. The folks living in the rural-er parts of the state must be tearing their hair out.