Folks, I'm sorry--but I believe that being considerate, polite and accepting goes right out of the window when guns are concerned.
Rule #1: ALL guns are ALWAYS loaded.
No execptions. No excuses. No shortcuts. No second chances.
If I am handling a firearm, the first thing I do is to clear it. I don't care if the person in front of me just reassembled the gun, there is no loaded ammunition or even empty brass within 100 feet, and the gun has no firing pin--ALL guns are ALWAYS loaded.
I was in Cabela's a while back, and while my wife was downstairs looking through clothing, I went upstairs, heading for the Gun Library to drool and wish.
As I came up the escalator, I found myself staring right down the barrel of a pump action shotgun. There were a group of youngsters (between 20-25) milling about, and taking pictures.
I moved to the side quickly, and walked up to the person holding the shotgun. "Hey, guy--watch that muzzle. That's not cool."
His answer?
"Oh, don't worry, it's not loaded."
I replied, "Friend, all guns are ALWAYS loaded. Don't take the chance." I then went and informed store personnel.
If you find yourself being covered by a muzzle, MOVE. Get away from the line of fire.
Go and tell the person in a clear and firm voice something along the lines of, "Hey, watch that muzzle, OK?" Do not give them a chance to do it again.
Remember, it only takes a second--and someone's life is changed forever, or snuffed out. Don't take the chance.
All guns are ALWAYS loaded. Never, EVER forget it, even for a second.