I have a Smith M & P subcompact in .40 that is a nice little gun, but kicks a bit when firing defense loads. It’s fine with Winchester White Box but that’s an older design. I had thought Hornady Critical Defense would be good, but it seems to kick with some sharpness and muzzle flip. Nothing painful, but I am looking for a modern defense load that would help promote faster shooting. Anyone find a good milder load in .40?