From what I've read so far, the Glock 43, a 9mm firearm, is the closest thing to Wendyj's .380, which apparently fits her the best. I can only assume the .380 Glock Wendyj has is a G42, as the other .380 Glocks on the market are typically unavailable in the USA.
I don't quite understand Post#4 (Wendyj's 2nd post) as I don't know what
means.
I generally don't recommend a 1911 to anybody unless that person is dedicated to ensuring the 1911 operates reliably and will put any time & money into to it if it's not initially reliable.
From just shooting 1911, there are some differences to ensure.
-ensuring one's grip is depressing the grip safety.
-determining if one can use the thumb-on-top-of-the-thumb-safety shooting method.
-determining if the extra weight is acceptable.
Only Wendyj can determine if going from a G42 AND G26 to either a G19 or 1911 is for her. The best way is to buy one or both and totally immerse oneself in it for a month or more of shooting, as much as possible, perhaps 1,000 rounds to get that muscle memory and find out what, if anything, is not working for her or wearing on her hands.
I do like how the choices have been narrowed down to either a Glock or a 1911, however, as these are my two favorite platforms.
I'll be interested to hear the final outcome of this journey.
Among many others, I've got a G43, G26, G19, and a few 1911s (but not a SIG or Ruger 1911). All my 1911s are in .45ACP. I don't have a 9mm 1911.
Wendyj, for the next handgun, first decide on Glock or 1911. If 1911, then that opens up caliber, brand, size, and price range. Choosing the right 1911 is a subject in itself.