You're making broad statements again, without any reference. Which conclusions and who, exactly, agrees?
The M&S "conclusion" that shot placement matters more than any other factor? Sure. Everyone agrees.
Let's take a step back, though. Is 10mm 155 GD or a .357 semi-jacketed 125 gr hollow point likely to be effective most of the time? Sure. They do not have the penetration to be effective in some scenarios, though. That doesn't mean you should choose an inferior load like Hydrashok, either. You should choose a load that has decent terminal effect and adequate presentation, then bear in mind that handguns are generally poor at stopping people with any load and focus on shot placement.
Incidentally, I'm curious how many police departments still issue .357 mag, anyway. Not that its popularity in law enforcement is in any way indicative of its usefulness for personal defense.