To me, a handgun is a very personal choice and if I were in your shoes, I would be going to a range that has rentals and trying out a few different types of handguns out.
Rent a 1911, a couple different revolves and maybe a Glock or other striker fired pistol. From there you can get some idea what feels best to you and refine your search from there.
Rent a 1911, a couple different revolves and maybe a Glock or other striker fired pistol. From there you can get some idea what feels best to you and refine your search from there.