Being a AR smith & builder, I have a little different take on things,
But mostly I agree with the basics listed above.
You CAN tune the gas system to work with about any round you come up with.
Pulse strength (pressure) and duration (time) are just two components,
There is a lot you can do with the mechanical parts to get your AR cycling fine with about any load you can come up with...
The draw back is the rifle might not want to fire 'Standard' rounds after you modify for a higher or lower powered round.
Guys that set up for an ultra quiet suppressed that is really spongy is a prime example.
Another example is very short 'Pistol' barrels.
A third would be ultra high pressure long range rounds.
You are better off in the long run getting an AR loaders manual that gives you loads that function in the 'Average' AR and work your loads from there.
You can work the ejector/extractor to throw your brass about anywhere you want them.
Figure out a good load, something you are happy with, and when you decide this is going to be your 'Standard' load, figure out where you want your brass to land...
My varmint/table guns drop the brass on the bench next to me, a rug keeps them from rolling off.
Field or 'Fox Hole' guns throw the brass forward to keep hot brass off the guy next to you.
At the range, throwing brass forward keeps idiots from walking on your brass,
But you have to wait until the range is cold to pick it up.
Plinking guns I normally tune to throw the brass backwards.
Plinkers usually have spectators, and hot brass keeps the idiots from flanking the shooter on his blind side.
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Application, Application, Application....
Are you loading for general shooting?
Are you loading for plinking?
Are you loading for hyper accuracy/shooting off a bench or rest?
Are you loading for long range?
Are you loading for an AR with 20" or longer barrel,
Or loading for a carbine (CAR)?
Is this a 'Tight' high quality rifle or a 'Clone' that might have loose tolerances?
Is it a Stoner design with direct gas impengment, or a gas piston/op rod version?
About the hard primer comment,
There is no way a PROPERLY made bolt/firing pin will allow the firing pin to strike the primer until the bolt is fully locked.
I've fired thousands of super soft bench rest primers through my ARs without one single slam fire.
It just can't happen unless the bolt tail is undersized or the firing pin is too long.
A simple firing pin Go/NoGo gauge will tell you very quickly if that is the case.
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I do a full length resize, THEN do the case gauge.
You can't tell a thing from a case gauge when you are sticking a bloated case in it.
Keep in mind that just thick case lube will give you a 'Long' gauge reading,
So a bloated case will really screw with indications.
If the case doesn't drop in the gauge on its own, you aren't reading the shoulder seat, and the head space indication will be wrong.
You want to read from the shoulder seat in the case gauge,
Not friction from the sides of the case.
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If you use Military brass, or FORIGN made brass,
Watch the primer pocket depth.
You will quickly find FORIGN made brass, and sometimes US made Mill brass has shallow primer pockets.
And sometimes under/over size primer pockets.
It's their rules, they get to make them any way they want to,
And they don't have any rules.
American made SAAMI specification brass is usually pretty uniform.
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I used to bench shoot, so I was anal retentitive about trimming to length.
With an AR that indexes/head spaces off the shoulder I've found it's not all that important to have a 'Perfect' length brass in an AR.
I usually check length when I run them through the case gauge,
When the brass has gone through two cycles,
Trim to minimum length, and rarely have to trim again.
The neck usually cracks before the case reaches maximum length again.
With a reasonable pressure load, and a light to medium crimp, I get between 5 to 8 loadings before the rim gets gouged up or the neck cracks.
Annealing the neck is a can of worms I don't get into with brass as common as .223, if it cracks, big deal, I toss it.