This is a tough one. Having had four of them (wifes, the last one 25 years and counting) I can tell you devorce is not a pleasent trip to take.
Here's a suggestion, pick up a newspaper and start looking at classic cars to rebuild, then start taking her around to look at some and let her get an idea of the cost of rebuilding a car. Tell her you are starting a new hobby. In about four weeks she should be telling you to stick with your current hobby of gun collecting (it's cheaper). Or tell her you are taking up golf and take her with to checkout and price golf clubs. Let her think that the next gun purchase is her idea.
Just a suggestion.
Jim
Here's a suggestion, pick up a newspaper and start looking at classic cars to rebuild, then start taking her around to look at some and let her get an idea of the cost of rebuilding a car. Tell her you are starting a new hobby. In about four weeks she should be telling you to stick with your current hobby of gun collecting (it's cheaper). Or tell her you are taking up golf and take her with to checkout and price golf clubs. Let her think that the next gun purchase is her idea.
Just a suggestion.
Jim